2012, December. A week that ended in unspeakable tragedy. Our words fail to amply describe this ache we feel. These cycles of pain and anguish ... life lived within a 24-hour news channel with a constant barrage of breaking news text alerts. Can we unplug and disconnect to escape? Is there anywhere left to hide? We run home to be with the ones we love and cling to our sure foundation. It’s all we know.
“And I came home
Like a stone
And I fell heavy into your arms
These days of dust
Which we've known
Will blow away with this new sun.
Caitlyn is busy keeping up with her school classes and raising Taj. He’ll be 22 months on Christmas Day. Taj loves to play with cars and is quite the dancer. He also likes to watch football with his Papa. Taj also enjoys picking out Thomas the Train and Curious George episodes to watch. Brody is very patient with him and puts up with his growing harassment.
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| Happy 1st Birthday, Taj! |
Caitlyn is busy keeping up with her school classes and raising Taj. He’ll be 22 months on Christmas Day. Taj loves to play with cars and is quite the dancer. He also likes to watch football with his Papa. Taj also enjoys picking out Thomas the Train and Curious George episodes to watch. Brody is very patient with him and puts up with his growing harassment.
And I'll kneel down
And I'll kneel down
Know my ground
Alexandra is now a high school junior. Last Spring, she scored the winning goal in the girls’ varsity soccer regional playoff game. She is now in the middle of her basketball season, which remains her favorite sport. She's quickly approaching ACT test-taking time; so, there will be lots of emphasis on her college entrance exams in the months to come.
And I will wait, I will wait for you
And I will wait, I will wait for you
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| Alexandra (right) and her teammates celebrate their win as IHSA 1A Girls Soccer Regional Champs |
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| Jim Furyk, Tiger Woods, Brandt Snedeker and Steve Stricker |
When he’s not installing or repairing DSL lines, Darrin continues to pursue his passion of golf. His ultimate highlight this year was attending and working the Ryder Cup at the Medinah Country in September. We were able to watch the celebrity scramble earlier in the week and during the tournament, Darrin worked as a security guard and was assigned to Team USA’s clubhouse. He got to meet a lot of his favorite golfers and was absolutely thrilled to just be there. Lasting impression: Phil Mickelson is a genuinely nice guy.
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| At CARA's Newton 20 Miler (Sept., 2012) |
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| Darrin around Mile 20 |
It was a big running year for the two of us. I had committed to run the Chicago Marathon back in January after a teary lunch with a girlfriend as we discussed our goals and conquering fears. Darrin caught the marathon bug after we stopped at the Team World Vision booth at a race expo and watched their promo video which featured a friend of ours from church. Our starting base was the Soldier Field 10 Mile, which we ran together on Memorial Day weekend. The following week kicked off the official 18 week marathon training program. In late July, we ran the Rock’n’Roll Half Marathon, which was one of the hottest races I’ve ever run. For the final long run before the taper, we took part in the Chicago Area Runner’s Association Newton 20 Miler. Darrin and I were feeling very confident and hopeful of reaching our goals after that long run because we felt strong and our times were right on target. As you know, this past Summer was a hot one. When the morning of October 7th rolled around, it was about 27 degrees. Unfortunately, our bodies did not deal with the cold temps very well and our legs cramped us for most of the marathon. We both finished - not in the time that we had hoped or trained for; but, we finished and raised some money to help provide clean drinking water for families in Africa through World Vision.
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| Post-marathon group photo |
So break my step
And relent
You forgave and I won't forget
Know what we've seen
And him with less
Now in some way
Shake the excess
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| Coldplay |
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| Noel Gallagher |
Music and running continue to keep me sane as my work responsibilities at the firm pull me in many directions. I’m grateful to be able to sneak off at lunchtime to get in a workout down in the gym or run outside down along the lakefront path. I snuck in a few concerts this year: Snow Patrol and Ed Sheeran at the Aragon Ballroom in April; Coldplay at the United Center in August; and Noel Gallagher’s High Flying Birds and Snow Patrol (again ... I have a weakness for Irish bands) in November. I also got to attend
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| Snow Patrol at the Aragon Ballroom |
Lollapalooza for two days, but with a slight catch. I worked two separate shifts at Graham Elliot’s (“Master Chef”) Chow Town “Grahamwich” booth and once I was done, I was able to enjoy the festival. I was working in the food tent the day when that crazy storm caused an evacuation of the entire Grant Park area. Graham gave all of us a quick pep talk and told us to get somewhere safe. They eventually reopened Lolla and I was able to see Franz Ferdinand. The next day I was able to check out Jack White’s set. My big claim to fame was being able to make a truffle popcorn for Mr. White while at the Grahamwich booth.
And I will wait, I will wait for you
And I will wait, I will wait for you
And I will wait, I will wait for you
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| Franz Ferdinand |
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| Sunset in Florence over the Arno River |
Felice anniversario! Darrin and I decided to celebrate our 20 years together by heading over to Europe in October for our own Italian adventure. We spent an amazing 8 days discovering Rome, Florence, Greve, Panzano, Pisa and Siena. The Tuscan countryside was all that we had hoped it would be. Rome is a bubbling metropolitan city that oozes with history and culture at every turn and its hallowed streets are filled with people from all over the world. The food was absolutely some of the best we’ve ever had; every meal was an event. Long walks that took us from one end of the city to the other, uncovering sites made famous hundreds of years ago by events that shaped the world. The art: Michelangelo’s David at The Accademia; Giotto and Botticelli at The Uffizi Gallery; works by Raphael; Matisse; da Vinci; and Michelangelo’s masterpiece, The Sistine Chapel. We saw a lot, but we missed so much, too! We’d love to go back one day.
So I'll be bold
As well as strong
So take my flesh
And fix my eyes
That tethered mind free from the lies
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At the Villa Cafaggio Winery in Panzano
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| Galileo Galilei's Tomb |
And I remember ... dancing with my grandson; early morning prayers with a friend; the joy of freshly brewed coffee at 5:30 a.m.; still dreaming of Florence mornings and Roman nights; seeing my girls at Mile 2 on the #CM12 course; walking out of the Metro station and looking up to see the Colosseum; the other boys from Ireland jumping right into “Hands Open” with such raw, pure energy at the beginning of their set and then sliding right into “Take Back the City”; our last Wednesday night yoga; meeting new friends from around the globe; running with m’lady for 6+ miles during #CM12; gelato; honeysuckle growing wild and fuller hydrangeas; the community of runners and walkers that greet me during my weekend runs at Marquette Park; learning how to perfect grilled salmon; long runs; greeting Hall of Fame Olympians; bachelorette night karaoke; a good Samaritan helping me out when I ran out of gas; climbing to the top of the Duomo in Florence; cheering on Team USA at the Ryder Cup; Nonna Gina's Amaretto; the wisdom of older women; high-fives; celebrating Taj’s 1st birthday; POTUS' motorcade; singing along to "Set Fire to the Third Bar” as Gary stood on the stage and I was feet away at the Aragon Ballroom; morning croissants; watching Alexandra participate in her sporting events; missing trains and trying new foods; pushing myself to a point physically in weather conditions that I began to wonder if I had truly gone over the edge; Chianti Classico; NATO Summit 2012; seeing the city come back into focus from south Michigan Avenue around the final 7-8 miles of the marathon; pushing myself to forgive; saying good bye to those we love; hugs from the 4's and 5's on Sundays; answers to prayer; burgers in Summertime at Sweetwater; lunchtime runs along the lake on those hot Summer days; hearing a voice that’s still whispering; crossing finish lines; “The Scientist”; the ability to fill my lungs with air to breathe and muscles that continue to propel this still 40-something body; and just how good God is.
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| Running across the Chicago River |
But I'll kneel down
Wait for now
I'll kneel down
Know my ground
2013. May the new year bring much love and peace to us all. We pray that during this holiday season, you will be reminded of the blessings and gifts that money cannot buy. “For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, which is Christ the Lord.”
Raise my hands
Paint my spirit gold
And bow my head
Keep my heart slow
Cause I will wait, I will wait for you ... .”
“I Will Wait for You” Mumford and Sons
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Inside of the Colosseum
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